I regret losing the girl of my life. We met while I was studying in France. She was absolutely perfect for me and I am sure she felt the same way about me. We had four or five months together and it was the best time in my life. We fit together so well, we didn’t agree on everything but we worked things out so well between us. Then she had to return to the US to complete her studies and I had to return to the UK to complete mine. We wrote for about two years but after a while she returned my letters. I never met anyone like her since and I tried very hard. More recently we talked and I learned that she is married. The problem is that meeting her has ruled me ever since and has also destroyed my marriage because I have lived my life comparing my current wife with her. I live my life with a pain for which I can find no relief.