Today’s Secret Regret

“I regret letting you control me for over a year, and thinking that was love. I regret every time I gave into your traps, always playing the innocent victim. I regret the power I gave you over me, because you used it so well that you made sure I followed you down that dark hole. I don’t regret leaving you, and I don’t feel bad for how poorly she treated you after.” Female/19

Today’s Secret Regret

“I regret not being close to my mother. My mother sacrificed so much for me. However, I was too immature and self centered to understand or appreciate it. Later, my mother lied and cheated on my father and won a huge divorce settlement receiving half my Dad’s pension including a little bit of alimony due to our lovely no fault divorce we have in our society. For 7 months I didn’t talk to her. I slowly reconnected with her, but the damage was done. I have a relationship with her. But not the one I like . If only I had forgiven her sooner and told her I loved her.”

Today’s Secret Regret

“I regret telling my then-girlfriend the password to my laptop. At the time, it seemed like the two of us were in it for the long haul, and I had no idea how much of a non-contributing, narcissistic deadbeat she actually was. Weeks after we split, I still had to delete disturbing videos from my YouTube page, and even today I have to manually mark emails from disgusting sites as junk.”

Today’s Secret Regret

“My secret regret was listening to a High School Counselor who told me that I would never make it thorough Veterinary School because I had a solid C math average but an A/B average in my other subjects.

I regret not listening to both of my parents and NOT believing that I was smart enough to do college and Veterinary school.

My self esteem was horrible and I didn’t believe that I was smart enough or even worthy

I settled and went to college and landed in jobs that I have hated but stayed because of the money.

Because I settled for a lesser college education, jobs and later men I have NEVER had the amazing career or life that I could have had!

I definitely would have gotten involved with better men , had better husbands and made better lives for my children!

Looking back I know I would have made a wonderful Veterinarian and would have loved my job.”

Today’s Secret Regret

I regret staying in the relationship I’m currently in. I regret internalizing every negative comment he makes, every name he calls me, every nasty thing he says to me. I regret not leaving him because of our child, I don’t know why i think I can change him or believe him when he says he will change. I regret sitting at home blaming myself when he’s out “doing him”, because I know exactly what he’s doing. I regret wasting 7 years of my life on a man who doesn’t even deserve 1. I regret not listening to my mom when she tells me that I deserve better because i know she’s right. I regret not having the courage or the strength to walk away. I regret a lot of things, but mostly I regret not loving myself enough to know better.