Today’s Secret Regret

I regret letting you control me for over a year, and thinking that was love. I regret every time I gave into your traps, always playing the innocent victim. I regret the power I gave you over me, because you used it so well that you made sure I followed you down that dark hole. I don’t regret leaving you, and I don’t feel bad for how poorly she treated you after. female/19

Today’s Secret Regret

I regret that I drank for 25 years instead of spending that time and money to give better opportunities to my three kids. I feel that they would have gotten involved more with school and church and uplifting activities instead of hanging around people who would bring them down leading them to addictions of their own, resulting in homelessness and joblessness.

Today’s Secret Regret

I regret cheating on my husband. I confessed what I did, but he thinks it happened years ago when it happened barely 3 months ago. When I confessed I told him it didn’t matter when I did it, pain would be the same. He has forgiven me, but thing is, I feel I’m still lying to him for not telling him straight out when the date was. I know I won’t ever tell him, I want to fight for this marriage. He knows the most important detail. That I cheated. If I say more, it will destroy him, more than me. Because deep down I want to tell him so I can feel better, but I won’t get anything out of it.

Today’s Secret Regret

I regret filing for divorce, I am going through the journey (5 months in) and it had all become real and daunting. I regret that its come to this, maybe better communication and being more forceful in making myself heard would have given me a different result. He is not interested in sorting out our differences now. But the process has made us realize we want different things out of life and from a marriage.

Today’s Secret Regret

I regret not telling you that I love you. If you would have known how I truly felt, you probably would have trusted me more. You would have known that I wouldn’t let you down and that I wouldn’t break a promise to you. Instead, you’re gone behind the belief that I disappointed you even though I didn’t. I’m so sorry, love. I miss you. I dream of seeing your smiling face again.