When I ended my 6 year engagement, I was in so much pain that I was blinded by the first guy that gave me attention. I didn’t sleep with him, but I did things that I regret. He turned out to be a really bad person, and I would have seen that under normal circumstances. When you are hurting that bad, you don’t always think clearly. You just want something to fill that void you feel so you latch on to the first thing that gives you comfort.