SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: January 28, 2018

My biggest regret is sleeping with a guy I barely knew just a few weeks after my breakup from my 4 and half year boyfriend. I realize now I was only trying to avoid the pain of my breakup, though I left because I was still depressed about times he hit me. The guy I slept with ended up saying he had very strong feelings for me and that intimidated me because I knew I didn’t and wouldn’t feel the same. My ex and I are friend again, and I know now I will always love him very very much. I just really regret meeting this other guy and sleeping with him when I knew I was still in love with someone else. It’s really weighing down on me and I feel guilty. I also regret telling my friend because I sense she judges me, and I have so much anxiety right now that even though she promised not to tell anyone, I have this feeling she’s going to tell someone. I just regret opening up, I regret telling people secrets, I regret what I did.

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2 thoughts on “SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: January 28, 2018

  1. Don’t regret opening up. Opening up tells you the people who should and shouldn’t be in your life. You will start on the journey of inviting people into your life that will enhance your life instead of bringing it down. Have faith in yourself and who who you are that’s the first step. Then when you are raw with someone and they don’t accept it without judgement you will be strong enough to know that you are ok even if they judge or disapprove. Age helps and experience helps. Faith in yourself is essential.

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  2. When I ended my 6 year engagement, I was in so much pain that I was blinded by the first guy that gave me attention. I didn’t sleep with him, but I did things that I regret. He turned out to be a really bad person, and I would have seen that under normal circumstances. When you are hurting that bad, you don’t always think clearly. You just want something to fill that void you feel so you latch on to the first thing that gives you comfort. Take it as a lesson in life, but don’t be so hard on yourself. Instead learn from it and move forward. Don’t close yourself off, part of growing up is learning who you can trust. Have faith in people, if they let you down it’s just another lesson to be more careful with your trust next time.

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