SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: February 4, 2017

I regret telling my best friend that I’m in love with her. She once told me when she was drunk that if she could like girls the way I do, that we would be soulmates. I truthfully never expected anything to come out of me telling her. She has a boyfriend and I know she’s straight but I just wanted her to know that there was someone out there that really cares for her and sees her for who she is, even when other people don’t. She told her boyfriend and I don’t know who else about it and now things are really awkward and I doubt it’ll ever be the same. I’m moving in 4 days and I want things to be okay again before I leave, but I don’t know if I’ll ever see her again.



2 thoughts on “SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: February 4, 2017

  1. Maybe you scared her because she never looked at you in that context.
    Before you move, just tell her you still want to be friends and if she ever needs help or a good listener, that you are there for her.
    Put the ball in her court. You have done all you can and hopefully you will continue to hear from her.
    Ignore the other people that want to make it “weird.” They and their opinions don’t count.


  2. Tell her that you are sorry and you know that you made a mistake and you still want to be friends with her – also want to hear from her, because she is really important in your life.
    Explain the things clearly, don’t scare her!
    Wish luck for their relationship and don’t feel sad because you will find the right person for yourself as well!


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