When i was in 8th grade, i had a crush on the most popular girl in my school. It seemed like every boy has crush on her because she was really pretty and still she is now. Luckily we were in the same class. I was very nervous to talk to her at first time but finally after a couple days, i could talk comfortably and threw jokes to her. Everything was fine but I was too shy to ask her out. I thought she always laughed at my jokes and always tried to find a way to let me teach her some subjects ( I was quite smart in junior high school). Because I’m too much of a pussy to make a move, there was nothing between us and she finally got a boyfriend. Later on, one of her closest friends told me that she really liked me and waited for me to ask her out. She also made her own chocolate on valentines day for me but she was too shy to gave it to me. I still feel regret now and I think that incident makes me hesistant to find girlfriend. I’m 22 years old and I have never had any girlfriend because I’m afraid I will repeat same mistakes as I did.


3 thoughts on “SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: January 2, 2017

  1. don’t be hard on yourself. the results you get all stem from belief. you are young and had weak belief in your appeal to a girl like that so your actions were weak, which resulted in her getting with someone else. i experienced the same thing. countless millions of people do. it’s part of growing up. belief like this isn’t something you can talk yourself into. it takes time, knowledge, experience and achievement. rest assured there is an abundance of beautiful girls out there for you. good luck.


  2. It must have been an awful experience and a very hard part of your life, but moving on is really important. It’s difficult of course, but it really pays of in the end. You can’t find the Right One if you don’t start looking.


  3. Its time to stop fearing and start TRYING. You once liked a girl who liked you and you missed your opportunity. Why let it happen again, you have the chance to do things differently this time. To learn from your mistake! You’re afraid of history repeating itself but you’re repeating history every day that you continue to let opportunities pass you by. You’re scared of the past because you’re afraid its going to happen again, but have you actually looked at the past? You liked and girl and she liked you back!!! What’s scary about that? Don’t miss the next opportunity!


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