I regret taking you back after you cheated on me with another man while pregnant with our child. I regret taking you back a second time after you cheated again, and again, and again, then after your rehab. I regret that you have now, after 20 years have come to the conclusion that you are an addict BECAUSE you dealt with so much guilt over never loving me in the first place. I don’t and won’t ever regret winning custody of my daughters. Time for your regrets.