SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: September 12, 2016

screen-shot-2016-09-08-at-11-45-59-pmMy biggest regret is falling for someone who was out to only con me out of my money. First ever relationship and thinking I found the perfect guy, I was so stupid. He lied about everything, his work , his family and his marriage to someone else! Once he got the first 50k, I felt I was trapped and had nowhere to go. No one to turn to as my family and friends wouldn’t understand the stupidity. I regret that I gave him more money and more than that I gave him my body. I regret that my first time was with such a lying, deceitful man but I was trying to justify the lie. I regret ever meeting him.

2 thoughts on “SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: September 12, 2016

  1. Hello:

    Yes, you have been duped by a manipulative liar. You lost an incredible amount of money and emotions to an undeserving person.You loved someone who revealed himself to be totally undeserving of you.

    Yours is an awful situation. I am sure you lay awake some nights crying and wishing you could turn back the clocks and make things better. Sadly, you cannot.

    I would advise you to try waking up each morning, count to ten, take a deep breath and tell yourself (and believe it firmly) that TODAY will be GOOD; don’t think about tomorrow or Tuesday week, just think about the day ahead.

    Cry if you need to. Crying helped me. It might help you. I would go to work, be a smiley, nice, happy person. On the drive home sometimes, I would put the key in the ignition, and sob myself through the 25 minutes’ drive home.

    There was a time when I thought I would never heal. I was broken. But, guess what: after time – I am improving. I have clarity and, crazy as it seems, I am accepting that I have learned some difficult lessons for reasons unknown!

    Your ex-partner will one day meet his nemesis.

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