SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: December 14, 2015

I regret not respecting myself as a human being. Letting a man make me feel so bad about myself. Letting him almost kill me. Letting him push me to have an abortion….. an abortion… I really regret the abortion. I regret the sleepless nights I allowed myself to have when he didn’t come home. I regret believing him, how sorry he was or wasn’t. I don’t regret my 2 children but after 20 years with him I wonder how long before it is that I can move on past my regrets and leave him without hurting our children.
Female 38

3 thoughts on “SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: December 14, 2015

  1. I strongly suggest you plan your exit from your unfit husband before you awaken old and asking how you could have allowed this to happen to you. Good luck.

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  2. Even though I too would find it hard to choose and deal with an abortion, at least you saved your unborn child from coming into that situation, and although giving it up for adoption might have given it a chance, there are still no guarantees your baby would have ended up in a good home. If I were to have another child, I would adopt, because the earth is too over populated which is not good for humanity, the earth and all other living beings. I’m not saying abortion is the answer, but now that it’s done, at least be thankful for these things. You can still talk to your baby in spirit, and send your heart out. You can also do something symbolic, like sponsor a child, or volunteer with a handicapped child, but if your resources are limited, then just put extra effort into your baby’s siblings, the same effort you would have put into your baby. That would make him/her happy.

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    • …also, depending on the danger involved in leaving, it hurts your children to be in that situation, or to have their mother be hurt.

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