SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: November 5, 2015

Three years? How can it be three years? I regret I let you slip away. We were so close to actually being honest with each other. But fear held us back. And you moved on. I have tried, but I can’t. I’m happy that you’re happy, but why doesn’t this get any easier? I thought time was supposed to heal everything…

4 thoughts on “SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: November 5, 2015

  1. The longer I go through it, I to begin to understand that time doesn’t heal everything. Particularly those missed love opportunities. If you have some time, check out the “5 to 7” movie starring Anton Yelchin , that probably paints a more realistic emotional picture of the scenario.

    Fortunately our hearts are big enough to accommodate a number of special people in our lives. Some people will never be replaceable, and that’s OK. But for most of us, it’s probably not the fairytale ending. We live with the choices we make and the circumstances that fall our way, many beyond our control.

    I’m convinced that I too will carry a particular love to the grave. I wonder if that’s the human condition, or how many people suffer the same dilemma. Probably a number of us. You’re not alone.

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  2. I believe that time cannot heal what was not properly dealt with the begin with. If u still can’t get past it than it might be because u know in ur heart u didnt do what u shouldve done to make things clear enough to move forward the way u wouldve thought. The other person might even feel the same way and it may be hard for u to see or believe…unless u learn to push urself past ur fears with knowing what is ment to be with this person u may carry this heavy weight in ur heart for all time. Clearing things up between u two with any confusion is really ur only way of releasing the feeling of failing in this sinerio because of ur own fears hun. The choice is urs… Take the first step towards being confident like we all did as a child per say…. Or carry ur blankey and pretend ur legs dont work right along in the little red wagon all ur life. But believe me..fighting ur fears over being honest in ur words towards someone u truly care about is nothing like jumping off a cliff into the abiss… Some women can b cold…but if u truly care for her than how could she really be that awful to hurt u when all ur doing is allowing urself to be confident in ur choices in this life to move forward in ur future as strong as anyone who wants to succeed can? Just remember… Its never too late to be true to YOU. Good luck honey…all the best!

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  3. One other thing I forgot to mention previously….
    Please forgive me for being so bold…as I honestly dont mean to offend…but something about your regret posting reminds me about someone very dear to my heart as well and I know personaly I would’ve LOVED the opportunity to simply be able to say to him if allowed the chance…. Sometimes it seems as tho we can almost share in the other persons thoughts…when we are possibly only scencng what could be something in their hearts…but without being mind readers we can never truly know until the words are given and allowed to either make or break the spell that sometimes can fool even the best of us. Nobody is completely immuned… Everyone has a chance at the real thing… But unless u want it to becc a reality… It cannot. It is us that has to make it happen… Destinty can only provide us with the tools and surroundings…in krder to build it we must work at it.😉 i know Im weird. But I hope it makes sence and helps somehow… Take care my friend… Maybe someday I myself will know the truth by those in my life as well. As hard as I have seeked it and craved it… Apparently I am not the only one who has to want the same in theirs… Good luck to us both eh! Xoxo….

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  4. It has been three years for me also ….my husband walked out. I read and re-read quotes I wrote in a journal often. One of my favorites is from Rose Kennedy “It has been said that time heals all wounds. I do not agree. The
    wounds remain. In time, the mind, protecting it’s sanity, covers them with scar tissue and the pain lessens. It is never gone”. Another favorite is “One of the happiest moments ever is when you find the courage to let go of what you can’t change and accept what just IS”. Author unknown. These help me and hope they help you too. Also I might mention that a couple weeks ago I
    attended a Tony Robbins event in L.A .called “Unleash the power within”. It is
    life changing for those of us with these kinds of issues and I highly recommend you check it out. Best to you. F/56

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