SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: November 1, 2015

I regret that I’m a daily disappointment to my wife. All I want is to make her happy, and God knows I try. But I’m not perfect, and I will always be making those mistakes every day that cause her to lash out at me. But I will keep trying… If not for her, then for the kids. I just hope that some day I will earn her love again. I hope that someday, I’m good enough, that she’ll see that I’m better than her “friend,” and that I’m the one who has always been there for her.. I hope someday, I can become a great husband, and not the constant screw-up that I am now. I don’t mean to be in her way, even though I know that I am. My regret is being a rotten husband.

3 thoughts on “SECRET REGRET OF THE DAY: November 1, 2015

  1. It may be useful for you to talk to a counselor or a trusty friend. It may be that they could help you see your wife’s feelings in a different way, that might allow you to develop strategies for this situation..

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  2. Did you ever consider for just a moment thats its not you-that maybe shes a rotten wife? Sometimes, no matter what you do, you cant please everyone. If therapy is an option for one or both of you, you may want to consider it

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  3. I dont know u from adam… And ur sadness certain doesnt need anymore negativity. But to be honest with u sometimes it can be the other person who has grasping issues with knowing what it is they want in life and other times…no offence…it’s almost like some people walk around in life with their head up their ass. I know a guy who has spoken the same words of sadness and thwn turns around and acts like a selfish ingrate without any real concern for what their supposide loved ones may need or want in their life…never mind deserve. As i said.. This isnt directed necessarily to you…but some soul searchin is probubly needed…on ur part just as much as hers. Councelling is only a referee present for u both…but if violence between u two is possible than it might be a good idea. The real work needs to be within. At least thats what I found helped me in the long run. Not running off having an affair…not delibrately trying to drive the other person into the ground…but being honest about who u are…how u feel and what it is you are needing and wanting…as well as not willing to put up with anymore. Put ur foot down and set some realistic guidlines between u both and see how it goes. If it doesnt feel right still than u know u need to move on and find ur stength in other ways or with someone else if the case may be. U owe it to urself to give it all u got and be honest with who u are and who u deserve to have along side u in ur adventures of this life.

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